Are you confused about your sexuality? Or are you looking forward to having a fun time taking this quiz? You can try this ‘what my sexuality test’ for whatever your reason is. Not knowing your sexual orientation is very common. There are resources that can help you find where you are on the sexuality spectrum. Our sexual orientation test is one such method.
After you are done with this particular quiz, you will get the result as either: heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual, or pansexual. Keep in mind that no sexuality test is 100% accurate, as the outcome will be purely based on the options you choose for the given set of questions.
What do your results mean?
Heterosexual – You are emotionally and sexually attracted to the opposite sex or gender.
Homosexual – You are emotionally and sexually attracted to same-sex or gender.
Bisexuality – You are emotionally and sexually attracted to both sexes.
Asexual – You lack sexual attraction to others or experience low interest in sexual activity.
Pansexual – For you, gender doesn’t matter. You are emotionally and sexually attracted to all genders.
What is your sexuality? Take our Quiz
Welcome to our sexuality test! We are super excited to help you figure out or confirm your sexuality. Take our test & find out out how you identify!
Important note: This test is based on a range of answers configured to get the closest possible match. We recommend taking this test then checking out our lists of A-Z Sexuality List to read and educate yourself on other sexuality labels.
Lesbian
What you’re describing to us sounds like you identify as a Lesbian
Definition: A homosexual woman whose emotional, romantic and sexual feelings are towards women
This result may not be 100%, please read our A-Z Sexuality List or Get in touch if you need further help!
Asexual
What you’re describing to us sounds a lot like Asexual!
Definition: Asexual is the term used to describe a person who feels little to no sexual attraction to anyone.
This result may not be 100%, please read our A-Z Sexuality List or Get in touch if you need further help!
Demisexual
What you’re describing to us sounds a lot like Demisexual
Definition: Demisexual refers to a person who doesn’t experience sexual attraction unless they form an emotional connection.
This result may not be 100%, please read our A-Z Sexuality List or Get in touch if you need further help!
Gay / Queer
What you’re describing to us sounds like you identify as Gay / Queer
Definition: A person who identifies as homosexual. Most commonly used to describe simply not being straight.
This result may not be 100%, please read our A-Z Sexuality List or Get in touch if you need further help!
Pansexuality
What you’re describing to us sounds like you identify as Pansexual
Definition: Pansexuality is the attraction of all genders, they are often described as being “gender-blind”.
This result may not be 100%, please read our A-Z Sexuality List or Get in touch if you need further help!
Bisexual
What you’re describing to us sounds like you identify as Bisexual
Definition: Bisexuals are sexually attracted to one or more genders.
This result may not be 100%, please read our A-Z Sexuality List or Get in touch if you need further help!
Straight
What you’re describing to us sounds a lot like being straight!
Definition: Heterosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior between persons of the opposite sex or gender.
This result may not be 100%, please read our A-Z Sexuality List or Get in touch if you need further help!
Aromantic Asexual
What you’re describing to us sounds like you identify as Aromantic Asexual
Definition: Someone who does not experience romantic attraction to anyone. Like with asexuality, an aromantic person may still choose to engage in a romantic relationship, or not.
This result may not be 100%, please read our A-Z Sexuality List or Get in touch if you need further help!
What is your gender?
Do you feel attraction to only men or women?
Does gender of the person matter?
Do you find that your sexuality changes often?
Gender aside, are you attracted to…
Do you feel sexual attraction?
Personality is..?
Are you confused about your sexuality?
Take our Sexuality Quiz
Are you confused by your sexuality? Or just looking for some way to guess what it is? You’ll be amazed by this.
Answer 11 short, simple questions in our sexuality quiz to see if we can figure out where you are on the sexuality spectrum.
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So, how’d you get on? There’s no need to panic if you got an answer that maybe you are questioning. If you’re answer wasn’t what you thought it might be, that’s completely OK.
If you got ‘nope, not a clue’ it is because no quiz can truly tell you who you are and what sexuality you are. Your sexuality is not related to your general interests, it is only about how you feel inside.
We all know this sexuality quiz is just a bit of fun, because we can’t possibly know everything about you.
Sexuality is a spectrum, and it can be one where it can take a really long time to know where you sit. If you’re confused about your sexuality or want to talk to a trained mentor – click here to visit our community.
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What are the next steps for you?
If you took this quiz just for a laugh, then it’s super chill. If you took it because you are questioning your sexuality, then there are some things you might want to have a think about.
Check out some next steps ideas below:
1) Think about where you want to go from here
So if you have taken this quiz because you have been questioning your sexuality, this might be a good time to have a little think about where you want to go from here. Just because you’ve maybe gotten a result you didn’t expect, it doesn’t mean you should come out to everyone in your life straight away.
Take your time with it, and think about where you want to go from here. You might want to take a bit to sort your own head out. Try thinking about where you want your life to be in a years time. Will you feel comfortable being out? Do you want a relationship? Thinking about where you want to end up will always help with planning the journey.
2) Get some advice if you need it
Sometimes, we just can’t go through things alone. If you feel like you don’t have anyone in your life to talk about this at the moment, that’s completely OK. You can speak to one of our trained Digital Mentors in confidence here.
3) Come out to yourself
If you have been questioning your sexuality, the most important step you can take is to come out to yourself. By this we mean you need to realise that maybe you are gay/bi/ace/pan or any other sexuality, and that that’s completely fine. That you are who you are.
Try looking at yourself in a mirror, and saying to yourself ‘I am *insert sexuality here*, and that’s OK. Because I am also strong, smart, funny, independent, kind, caring, loving, and beautiful’. You are who you are, but you are so much more than your sexuality as well.
4) Look for others in your community
A great way to build up towards coming out, if that is what you think you want to do, is to find some other people within your community that you can learn from, talk to and be supported by. We all need our tribe.
We aren’t saying you should get rid of all your old friends and family in favour of this, but getting help to navigate this side of you is going to be important to understand it, and to get support if coming out doesn’t go so well.
Try following a few people on Instagram, TikTok or Twitter that will open your world, try learning about Pride in your area, or even find a local LGBT+ hobby group to join.
How to come out
Once you’ve come to terms with your sexuality, your attention might be turning towards coming out to friends and family. Being open and honest about who you are might be really scary at first, but it also might be the most liberating experience of your life.
Need advice on coming out? Check out these awesome articles below!
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Sexual Orientation Test
The Erotic Response and Orientation Scale was developed by psychologist Michael Storms in order to account for problems with the Kinsey Scale Test, which many found to be overly binary in its approach to sexual orientation. The test is lauded for its contributions, which include a more complex and less linear understanding of non-binary orientations as well as an appreciation of the fact that some people are asexual.
What is your sexual orientation? For each of the following questions, indicate how often it has occurred for you.
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In the past two weeks, I have…
I identify as a:
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The IDR-SOT© is the property of IDR Labs International. The original research was provided by Michael Storms in affiliation with Kansas University.
The Erotic Response and Orientation Scale (EROS) is a classical index and instrument for measuring heterosexual and homosexual behavior, bisexuality, and asexuality. The Erotic Response and Orientation Scale does not address all possible sexual or gender identities and does not purport to accommodate respondents who identify as non-binary. Though developed in part to counteract problems with the Kinsey Scale Test, Kinsey was, contrary to popular belief, not a behaviorist, but granted that sexuality is much broader than simply lived behavior. The Erotic Response and Orientation Scale is dated, yet touted as an overlooked and nuanced contribution to the study of human sexuality in newer research. The original results obtained by Storms in 1980 are broadly agreed to be significant, particularly in regard to the study of bisexuality.
Although all are designed to measure sexual orientation in two dimensions, the IDR-SOT© should not be confused with EROS, as authored by Michael Storms or alternative research organizations. However, all are professionally-designed personality tests (or inventories) meant for measuring sexual orientation in relation to gender roles in the Western world. The IDR-SOT© is the property of IDR Labs International. The original research was provided by Michael Storms in affiliation with Kansas University. The authors of this online personality sexual orientation test are certified in the use of numeruos personality tests and have worked professionally with typology and personality testing. The results of our free online Sexual Orientation test are provided “as-is”, and should not be construed as providing professional or certified advice of any kind. For more on our online personality test, please consult our Terms of Service.
